I don't sugar coat things with my girls. I tell them the truth and use the real names. But, some recent comments by Elizabeth has shown me we need to have a little more detailed talk related to human relations. :-)
Elizabeth sees a couple kissing on tv and calls it s e x. And then closes her eyes. This is on a PG show and the kiss is very innocent.
I remember Dad having the talk with me. He gave me books to read in 6th or 7th grade I think and then we talked about it. I am not against that but I think we will need to have a 4th grade level book. And we will go into more of the emotions of it all too. As well as how important the word NO is.
I am also going to ask her what she thinks s e x is. My guess is the talks with friends has started.
I know we talked about dating and even played a rocking game at Mary's. For the life of me I can't remember the name of the game - First Date? Maybe it was Mystery Date?
Anyway... our talks will be interesting - that is for sure.
P.S. while looking for the game online, I saw something else I haven't seen in years but that we used to play with as kids. These were solid and wicked - clacker balls.


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